TODAY'S reader question from Louis asks "My son is 9 and really wants a cellphone for his upcoming birthday. My wife thinks it's ok, but I don't think 9-year-olds need a cellphone. What do you think?"

Two of my daughters have cellphones, but I was against it both times. Unfortunately, they were spending more time with their mother at the time and I didn't get to protest.

Personally, the only reason I like them having a cellphone is because I can call them directly instead of having to talk to their mom all the time. Other than that, I don't think elementary-aged kids need cellphones and I'd almost extend that to junior high school kids.

In my opinion, there are some things children need to learn before and set as a higher priority than socializing. One of those things would be making and managing money. Another would be respecting those around them, especially in class. Most kids I know with cell phones tend to use them mainly for playing games, often at inappropriate times.

I don't think I can put an age on when it would be appropriate to have a cellphone. Instead I'd base the decision on how well the child respects property, teachers and others and has their priorities in order.

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